| Fear & Control
of Nerves
Over the years we have been asking clients for all the things
they fear, all the things that could go wrong or have gone wrong
with a presentation. We also asked for all the things they concentrate
on in their inner dialogue before the event.
In this section, we've listed the most common fears and included
some thoughts under each one on how understanding, forethought
and planning can greatly increase the feeling of being in control.
We believe that about 75% of nerves can be eliminated through
proper planning. Maybe more. Our planning model is all you should
need for that.
For the other 25%, you should read "Focus & Concentration".
However, for many people, additional help is required to help
them overcome difficult blocks or cope with their physical
reaction.
An open course or personal coaching will impact directly on your
confidence to give of your best in public.
Things that could possibly go wrong
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The audience have
heard it all before |
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They will be disinterested
/ demotivated / apparently bored |
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Strong personality / disruptive
individual with own agenda |
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They don't want to be there |
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They reject your ideas |
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What will I do with my hands |
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They get distracted by
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They upset your flow by not
grasping points |
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People talking in the audience
while you are talking |
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You won't be able to answer
their questions |
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Feeling that audience have
switched off |
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Lose track or find yourself
digressing |
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Too long |
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Too short |
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Not sure of subject |
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You will freeze / forget everything |
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Forget visual aids / handouts
/ some of your materials |
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Some part of the equipment
will fail |
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Fail to use OHPs / visuals
/ equipment correctly |
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Not enough preparation time |
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Lack of confidence |
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| There is an old story from ancient
Rome. The coliseum was full. A Christian was thrown to the lions.
The crowd cheered as the lion ran up to the Christian, bent
over him and prepared to take his first bite ... |
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| Just when the end seemed imminent,
the Christian whispered something and the lion whimpered and
ran away timidly. |
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| The Emperor, clearly impressed, asked
the Christian how he performed this miracle. The Christian said,
'I told him that after dinner, he would be expected to say a
few words'. |
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