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Fear & Control of Nerves

Over the years we have been asking clients for all the things they fear, all the things that could go wrong or have gone wrong with a presentation. We also asked for all the things they concentrate on in their inner dialogue before the event.

In this section, we've listed the most common fears and included some thoughts under each one on how understanding, forethought and planning can greatly increase the feeling of being in control.

We believe that about 75% of nerves can be eliminated through proper planning. Maybe more. Our planning model is all you should need for that.

For the other 25%, you should read "Focus & Concentration".

However, for many people, additional help is required to help them overcome difficult blocks or cope with their physical reaction.

An open course or personal coaching will impact directly on your confidence to give of your best in public.

Things that could possibly go wrong

The audience have heard it all before
They will be disinterested / demotivated / apparently bored
Strong personality / disruptive individual with own agenda
They don't want to be there
They reject your ideas
What will I do with my hands
They get distracted by…
They upset your flow by not grasping points
People talking in the audience while you are talking
You won't be able to answer their questions
Feeling that audience have switched off
Lose track or find yourself digressing
Too long
Too short
Not sure of subject
You will freeze / forget everything
Forget visual aids / handouts / some of your materials
Some part of the equipment will fail
Fail to use OHPs / visuals / equipment correctly
Not enough preparation time
Lack of confidence
There is an old story from ancient Rome. The coliseum was full. A Christian was thrown to the lions. The crowd cheered as the lion ran up to the Christian, bent over him and prepared to take his first bite ...

Just when the end seemed imminent, the Christian whispered something and the lion whimpered and ran away timidly.

The Emperor, clearly impressed, asked the Christian how he performed this miracle. The Christian said, 'I told him that after dinner, he would be expected to say a few words'.

 

 
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